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How to Nail an Informational Interview in 2026 (Scripts, Questions, and the Follow-Up That Lands Jobs)

Informational interviews are the quiet way into the hidden job market. Learn how to find the right people, ask so they say yes, what to ask, and the follow-up that turns a 20-minute chat into a job referral in 2026.

By Mokaru Team

Most of the jobs people land in 2026 never showed up on a job board. Depending on which study you read, somewhere between 70 and 85 percent of roles are filled through people rather than postings, and referred candidates are roughly four times more likely to get hired than someone who applied cold. The uncomfortable part is that you cannot fake your way into that network overnight. The good news is that there is one low pressure, surprisingly underused conversation that opens the door to all of it: the informational interview.

An informational interview is not a job interview. You are not asking for a role, and the other person is not judging your candidacy. You are asking a professional to spend 20 minutes telling you what their work is actually like. Done well, it gives you insider knowledge, a warm contact inside a company, and a real shot at the hidden job market that the rest of the applicant pool never sees. This guide walks through how to find the right people, ask in a way that gets a yes, run the conversation, and follow up so it actually turns into something.

DoDon't
Ask for advice and insightAsk for a job, directly or by hint
Request 20 minutes and respect the clockShow up open ended and overstay
Research the person before reaching outSend a generic copy and paste message
Prepare specific questionsWing it and make them carry the talk
Send a thank you within 24 hoursDisappear after they helped you
Ask who else you should talk toTreat it as a one and done favor

What an informational interview actually is (and is not)

An informational interview is an informal conversation with someone who does the kind of work you want to understand. The goal is to learn, not to be evaluated. It usually runs 20 to 30 minutes over coffee, a video call, or the phone, and you are the one who sets it up and leads the questions.

That single difference, who is in charge and why, changes everything. In a job interview the company invites you, leads the conversation, and decides if you fit a specific role. In an informational interview you invite them, you lead, and the only outcome you are after is a clearer picture of a path you are considering. Because there is no offer on the line, people relax and tell you things they would never say across a hiring table.

Job interviewInformational interview
The company invites youYou reach out and arrange it
They lead and assess youYou lead and ask the questions
Goal: win the offerGoal: learn and build a relationship
Formal and high pressureCasual and low pressure

Why informational interviews work

The blunt reason this matters is that hiring runs on trust, and trust runs on relationships. Employee referrals make up a small slice of the applicant pool, often cited around 7 percent, yet they account for roughly 40 percent of all hires. Referred candidates move through the process faster and are several times more likely to receive an offer. You cannot manufacture a referral, but you can earn one by becoming a real person to someone on the inside, and an informational interview is the most natural way to do that.

There is a second payoff that is easy to miss. Every conversation teaches you the language of the field: the tools people actually use, the problems they are trying to solve, the way they describe good work. That vocabulary makes your resume sharper, your cover letters more specific, and your eventual job interview answers sound like an insider rather than an outsider guessing from a job description.

Think in months, not minutes
One informational interview rarely produces a job on the spot. Five of them over a month build a small network of people who think of you when a role opens. Treat each conversation as a relationship you are starting, not a transaction you are closing.

How to find the right people to talk to

Start with the people closest to you and work outward. Warm contacts say yes far more often than strangers, so the order you reach out in matters.

  • Your existing network. Former colleagues, classmates, alumni, friends of friends. Ask the people you already know whether they can introduce you to someone in the field.
  • LinkedIn search. Search by job title and company, then filter for second degree connections so you share someone in common. A profile that names a mutual contact gets a reply far more often than a true cold message.
  • Alumni networks. A shared school is one of the strongest reasons a busy person will give a stranger 20 minutes. Most universities have searchable alumni directories.
  • Industry communities. Slack groups, professional associations, conferences, and active subreddits are full of people who already enjoy talking about their work.

When you find someone, do a few minutes of homework before you reach out. Know their current role, their path into it, and one specific thing you genuinely want to ask them about. That research is also what makes your LinkedIn message land instead of getting ignored. If you are aiming to talk with recruiters specifically, the etiquette is a little different and worth reading up on in our guide to working with recruiters.

How to ask: the message that gets a yes

The request itself is where most people sabotage themselves. Keep it short, make it specific, name why you picked this person, and ask for a small, defined amount of time. Messages in the range of 50 to 125 words tend to get the best response, and a clear, low pressure ask outperforms a vague one every time.

Good
Hi Dana, I am exploring a move into product marketing and came across your work on the recent launch at Acme. I am not looking for a job, I would just love to hear how you moved from copywriting into PM marketing. Would you be open to a 20 minute call in the next couple of weeks? I am happy to work around your schedule and will come with specific questions.
Bad
Hi, I am looking for new opportunities and would love to pick your brain sometime. Do you know if your company is hiring? Let me know when you are free to chat.

The good version works because it names a specific reason, reassures the person that this is not a disguised job request, and asks for a defined 20 minutes. The bad version is vague, it is obviously about a job, and it asks the other person to do the work of figuring out what you want. One short, confident line about who you are helps too, which is exactly what a good elevator pitch gives you.

Say the quiet part out loud
The single most reassuring sentence you can include is some version of: I am not asking you for a job, I just want your perspective. It removes the pressure that makes people ignore networking requests, and it makes them far more likely to say yes.

What to ask: questions that get real answers

Good questions are open, specific, and aimed at the person's experience rather than facts you could have Googled. You want stories and opinions, not a recital of the job description. Here is a reliable set to pull from, grouped by what you are trying to learn.

Understand the day to day

  • Can you walk me through what a typical day or week actually looks like?
  • What part of the job surprised you most when you started?
  • Which skills matter far more than people expect, and which matter less?

Understand the path

  • How did you get into this role, and would you take the same route today?
  • What do you wish you had known before you started in this field?
  • If you were breaking in now, what would you focus on first?

Understand where it is going

  • How is this work changing, and what skills are becoming more valuable?
  • What problems is your team or industry trying to solve right now?

Notice what is missing from that list: any version of can you get me a job or are you hiring. Keep those out. The conversation does the selling for you when you stay genuinely curious, and that curiosity is what people remember.

Listen more than you talk
Aim to speak for less than a third of the call. The point is to learn, and the person walks away thinking you were easy and pleasant to talk to, which is exactly the impression that earns a referral later.

How to not ask for a job (and still get one)

This is the part that feels counterintuitive. If you never ask for a job, how does an informational interview lead to one? Through two moves that keep the conversation honest and still open doors.

The first is the referral question. Near the end, ask: is there anyone else you would recommend I talk to? This one question turns a single chat into a chain of introductions, and each new name comes pre warmed by the person who referred you. It is the engine that makes networking compound instead of stall.

The second is simply staying visible. Connect afterward, occasionally engage with what they post, and send a short note when their advice helped you. When a role opens on their team, you are the specific person they already know, not a resume in a stack of 300.

Good
This has been incredibly helpful, thank you. Before we wrap up, is there anyone else you think I should talk to as I learn more about this field?
Bad
So given everything we talked about, do you think you could put in a good word for me or pass my resume to your manager?

The good version respects the relationship and keeps the door open. The bad version cashes in a connection you have not earned yet, in the very first conversation, and it usually ends the relationship rather than advancing it. Let the referral be offered, do not demand it. For the bigger picture on turning contacts into opportunities, see our full guide to networking for a job.

The follow up that turns a chat into an opportunity

What you do after the call decides whether the relationship lasts a week or a year. Send a thank you within 24 hours, and make it specific. Reference an actual thing they said and tell them what you are going to do differently because of it. A generic thanks for your time blends into the inbox. A note that proves you listened stands out.

Then resist the urge to follow up just to stay in touch. Busy people do not want empty check in emails. Reach out again only when you can add value: you read the book they recommended, you hit a milestone they advised on, you saw an article they would find interesting. Every touch should be pleasant and useful, which is the same principle behind a strong post interview follow up.

Close the loop
If their advice changed what you did, tell them. A message three months later that says I took your suggestion and just landed a role makes people genuinely glad they helped you, and it is the kind of update that keeps a contact invested in your career.

Informational interviews when you hate networking

If working a crowded room makes you want to leave, informational interviews are actually the version of networking that works for you. A one on one conversation about someone's real experience is far easier than small talk with strangers, and you can do most of it from home.

  • Reach out over email or message first, so you control the timing and wording instead of improvising on the spot.
  • Prepare your questions in advance. A short script removes the pressure of thinking on your feet and keeps the conversation moving.
  • Choose one on one calls over group events. Depth suits you better than breadth, and depth is what builds real relationships anyway.
  • Give yourself permission to recharge between conversations. Five quality chats spread across a few weeks beats ten rushed ones in a single draining day.

Frequently Asked Questions

Key takeaways

Informational interviews are the quietest high leverage move in a job search. They give you insider knowledge, sharpen how you talk about your own work, and put you inside the network where most jobs are actually filled, all without the pressure of an interview.

  • Lead with curiosity, not need. Ask for advice and perspective, never for a job.
  • Keep the ask small and specific. Twenty minutes, a clear reason you chose them, and a promise to come prepared.
  • Let the questions do the work. Stay curious, listen more than you talk, and skip anything that sounds like a job request.
  • Ask who else you should talk to. That one question turns a single chat into a chain of warm introductions.
  • Follow up fast and add value. A specific thank you within 24 hours, then contact only when you have something useful to share.

Do this five times over the next month and you will know more about your target field than you could learn from a hundred job postings, and a handful of people on the inside will know your name. That is how the hidden job market opens up.

Mokaru Team

Career Development Experts

The Mokaru team consists of career coaches, recruiters, and HR professionals with over 20 years of combined experience helping job seekers land their dream roles.

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